{"id":4919,"date":"2025-08-18T21:49:19","date_gmt":"2025-08-18T14:49:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nopphatnguoi.vn\/blog\/nguoi-an-mot-minh-thuong-co-7-pham-chat-dang-kinh-ngac\/"},"modified":"2025-08-18T21:49:24","modified_gmt":"2025-08-18T14:49:24","slug":"nguoi-an-mot-minh-thuong-co-7-pham-chat-dang-kinh-ngac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nopphatnguoi.vn\/blog\/nguoi-an-mot-minh-thuong-co-7-pham-chat-dang-kinh-ngac\/","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 7 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>\n<p>&#258;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh &#7903; n&#417;i c&ocirc;ng c&#7897;ng &#8211; bi&#7875;u t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a s&#7921; t&#7921; tin v&agrave; &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.tripmap.vn\/blog-npn\/2025\/08\/nguoi-an-mot-minh-thuong-co-7-pham-chat-dang-kinh-ngac.webp\" alt=\"Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i khi &#273;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7903; h&#7919;u 7 ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng kinh ng&#7841;c - 3\" width=\"100%\"><figcaption>Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i khi &#273;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7903; h&#7919;u 7 ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng kinh ng&#7841;c &#8211; 3<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Khi ch&uacute;ng ta b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o m&#7897;t nh&agrave; h&agrave;ng nh&#7897;n nh&#7883;p, c&#7843;nh t&#432;&#7907;ng m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng khi&#7871;n ch&uacute;ng ta t&ograve; m&ograve;. &#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i, vi&#7879;c &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; r&#7845;t ng&#7841;i ng&ugrave;ng, d&#7877; b&#7883; ch&uacute; &yacute; v&agrave; ph&aacute;n x&eacute;t. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, &#273;&oacute; l&#7841;i l&agrave; bi&#7875;u t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a s&#7921; &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p v&agrave; t&#7921; tin.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i khi &#273;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7903; h&#7919;u nh&#7919;ng ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng kinh ng&#7841;c. Theo ti&#7871;n s&#297; Nathaniel Branden, m&#7897;t nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c, c&#7889;t l&otilde;i c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh l&agrave; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c t&#7921; tin kh&ocirc;ng lay chuy&#7875;n. H&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng nao n&uacute;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7919;ng k&#7923; v&#7885;ng hay ph&aacute;n x&eacute;t c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i. S&#7921; t&#7921; tin &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c r&#7857;ng m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng &#273;&#7889;i ph&oacute; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng th&aacute;ch th&#7913;c c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.tripmap.vn\/blog-npn\/2025\/08\/nguoi-an-mot-minh-thuong-co-7-pham-chat-dang-kinh-ngac-2.webp\" alt=\"Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i khi &#273;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7903; h&#7919;u 7 ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng kinh ng&#7841;c - 2\" width=\"100%\"><figcaption>Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i khi &#273;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7903; h&#7919;u 7 ph&#7849;m ch&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng kinh ng&#7841;c &#8211; 2<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>B&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh t&#7921; tin, nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng th&#7875; hi&#7879;n s&#7921; &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p s&acirc;u s&#7855;c. Vi&#7879;c &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh ph&#7843;n &aacute;nh &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p, cho th&#7845;y ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c v&agrave;o ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7875; t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng nh&#7919;ng kho&#7843;nh kh&#7855;c trong cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng. Ti&#7871;n s&#297; Albert Bandura, m&#7897;t nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c n&#7893;i ti&#7871;ng, &#273;&atilde; nh&#7845;n m&#7841;nh t&#7847;m quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a t&iacute;nh t&#7921; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843;, ni&#7873;m tin v&agrave;o kh&#7843; n&#259;ng c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#7875; qu&#7843;n l&yacute; c&aacute;c t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo&agrave;i ra, nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh c&ograve;n th&#7875; hi&#7879;n t&iacute;nh ch&aacute;nh ni&#7879;m. H&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; ph&acirc;n t&acirc;m b&#7903;i cu&#7897;c tr&ograve; chuy&#7879;n m&agrave; ch&uacute; t&acirc;m h&#417;n &#273;&#7871;n h&#432;&#417;ng v&#7883;, k&#7871;t c&#7845;u v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng gian xung quanh. Vi&#7879;c hi&#7879;n di&#7879;n trong kho&#7843;nh kh&#7855;c cho ph&eacute;p c&aacute;c c&aacute; nh&acirc;n tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n h&#417;n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; s&#7913;c b&#7873;n c&#7843;m x&uacute;c cao. &#258;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh &#7903; n&#417;i c&ocirc;ng c&#7897;ng &#273;&ocirc;i khi c&oacute; th&#7875; g&acirc;y ra nh&#7919;ng &aacute;nh nh&igrave;n ho&#7863;c s&#7921; ph&aacute;n x&eacute;t, nh&#432;ng h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7883;u &#273;&#7921;ng v&agrave; ph&#7909;c h&#7891;i sau nh&#7919;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c x&atilde; h&#7897;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.<\/p>\n<p>T&iacute;nh t&ograve; m&ograve; c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t &#273;&#7863;c &#273;i&#7875;m th&#432;&#7901;ng th&#7845;y &#7903; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh. H&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#7853;n d&#7909;ng c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7875; quan s&aacute;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, th&#7917; c&aacute;c m&oacute;n &#259;n m&#7899;i ho&#7863;c h&ograve;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave;o m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng xung quanh.<\/p>\n<p>B&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh &#273;&oacute;, nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng xem th&#7901;i gian m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh l&agrave; th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; suy ng&#7851;m v&agrave; n&#7841;p l&#7841;i n&#259;ng l&#432;&#7907;ng. Nh&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c Carl Jung nh&#7845;n m&#7841;nh gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a s&#7921; c&ocirc; &#273;&#7897;c trong vi&#7879;c th&uacute;c &#273;&#7849;y nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; s&#7921; s&aacute;ng t&#7841;o.<\/p>\n<p>Cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng, t&iacute;nh ch&acirc;n th&#7853;t l&agrave; &#273;&#7863;c &#273;i&#7875;m &#273;&aacute;ng ch&uacute; &yacute; nh&#7845;t &#7903; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh. H&#7885; s&#7889;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng theo c&aacute;ch ri&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a h&#7885;, tho&aacute;t kh&#7887;i nh&#7919;ng r&agrave;ng bu&#7897;c c&#7911;a k&#7923; v&#7885;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i.<\/p>\n<p>N&#7871;u b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng vi&#7879;c &#259;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh, h&atilde;y b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch th&#7917; m&#7897;t qu&aacute;n c&agrave; ph&ecirc; b&igrave;nh d&acirc;n ho&#7863;c m&#7897;t &#273;&#7883;a &#273;i&#7875;m ngo&agrave;i tr&#7901;i. Mang theo s&aacute;ch ho&#7863;c nh&#7853;t k&yacute;, v&agrave; t&#7853;p trung v&agrave;o tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m gi&aacute;c quan c&#7911;a b&#7919;a &#259;n. &#258;n m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&#7919;a &#259;n m&agrave; l&agrave; m&#7897;t tuy&ecirc;n b&#7889; v&#7873; s&#7921; t&#7921; l&#7921;c, l&ograve;ng d&#361;ng c&#7843;m v&agrave; s&#7913;c m&#7841;nh n&#7897;i t&acirc;m.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0102n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m. 7 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd bao g\u1ed3m t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m, s\u1ee9c b\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00f2 m\u00f2, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. 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