{"id":4717,"date":"2025-08-18T09:51:44","date_gmt":"2025-08-18T02:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nopphatnguoi.vn\/blog\/nu-giam-muc-tin-rang-thoi-ky-chuyen-giao-can-tai-tao-on-goi-va-xay-dap-moi-quan-he\/"},"modified":"2025-08-18T09:51:45","modified_gmt":"2025-08-18T02:51:45","slug":"nu-giam-muc-tin-rang-thoi-ky-chuyen-giao-can-tai-tao-on-goi-va-xay-dap-moi-quan-he","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nopphatnguoi.vn\/blog\/nu-giam-muc-tin-rang-thoi-ky-chuyen-giao-can-tai-tao-on-goi-va-xay-dap-moi-quan-he\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u1eef gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c tin r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 chuy\u1ec3n giao c\u1ea7n t\u00e1i t\u1ea1o \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u00e0 x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p>Gi&aacute;m m&#7909;c Melissa L. Stoller, ng&#432;&#7901;i l&atilde;nh &#273;&#7841;o gi&aacute;o x&#7913; Southwestern Pennsylvania, tin r&#7857;ng Th&aacute;nh Th&#7847;n &#273;ang k&ecirc;u g&#7885;i Gi&aacute;o h&#7897;i t&igrave;m c&aacute;ch ph&#7909;c v&#7909; m&#7899;i trong m&#7897;t th&#7871; gi&#7899;i kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7915;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7847;y r&#7851;y s&#7921; chia r&#7869;. &#272;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7847;u l&agrave;m gi&aacute;m m&#7909;c v&agrave;o ng&agrave;y 13 th&aacute;ng 6, b&agrave; &#273;&atilde; chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i Living Lutheran v&#7873; c&aacute;ch Gi&aacute;o h&#7897;i c&oacute; th&#7875; n&#7855;m b&#7855;t s&#7921; chuy&#7875;n &#273;&#7893;i &#273;&#7875; x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; c&oacute; &yacute; ngh&#297;a v&agrave; ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n Th&acirc;n th&#7875; c&#7911;a Ch&uacute;a Kit&ocirc;. L&#7877; nh&#7853;m ch&#7913;c c&#7911;a b&agrave; s&#7869; di&#7877;n ra v&agrave;o ng&agrave;y 18 th&aacute;ng 10 t&#7841;i Gi&aacute;o h&#7897;i Lutheran Berkeley Hills &#7903; Pittsburgh.<\/p>\n<p>Trong m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c ph&#7887;ng v&#7845;n v&#7899;i Living Lutheran, Gi&aacute;m m&#7909;c Stoller nh&#7845;n m&#7841;nh r&#7857;ng th&#7901;i gian chuy&#7875;n &#273;&#7893;i nh&#432; hi&#7879;n nay l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7875; l&#7855;ng nghe Th&aacute;nh Th&#7847;n h&#432;&#7899;ng d&#7851;n theo nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;ch m&#7899;i. C&#7843;nh quan c&#7911;a c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7909;c v&#7909; trong c&aacute;c h&#7897;i th&aacute;nh &#273;ang thay &#273;&#7893;i khi s&#7889; l&#432;&#7907;ng th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n v&agrave; ngu&#7891;n t&agrave;i tr&#7907; gi&#7843;m. Gi&aacute;o h&#7897;i c&#7847;n t&igrave;m c&aacute;ch h&#7891;i sinh nhi&#7873;u &#417;n g&#7885;i trong Th&acirc;n th&#7875; c&#7911;a Ch&uacute;a Kit&ocirc;, trao quy&#7873;n cho gi&aacute;o d&acirc;n theo nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;ch m&#7899;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7883;nh h&igrave;nh l&#7841;i vai tr&ograve; c&#7911;a m&#7909;c s&#432; v&agrave; ph&oacute; m&#7909;c trong m&#7897;t m&#7841;ng l&#432;&#7899;i r&#7897;ng l&#7899;n h&#417;n c&#7911;a c&aacute;c &#417;n g&#7885;i m&#7909;c v&#7909;. C&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7909;c v&#7909; c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7917;a t&#7897;i l&agrave; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng, ph&#7909;c v&#7909; v&agrave; l&#7855;ng nghe l&aacute;ng gi&#7873;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7875; ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; th&#7853;t s&#7921; v&agrave; ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7889;ng ch&#7885;i l&#7841;i s&#7921; chia r&#7869; trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i v&agrave; ch&iacute;nh tr&#7883;.<\/p>\n<p>Khi &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7887;i v&#7873; c&#7843;m x&uacute;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh sau khi &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7847;u l&agrave;m gi&aacute;m m&#7909;c, Stoller cho bi&#7871;t b&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&agrave;n ng&#7853;p b&#7857;ng m&#7897;t tinh th&#7847;n bi&#7871;t &#417;n, c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng v&#7899;i s&#7921; to l&#7899;n c&#7911;a nhi&#7879;m v&#7909; m&agrave; c&aacute;c th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n gi&aacute;o x&#7913; &#273;&atilde; k&ecirc;u g&#7885;i b&agrave;. B&agrave; c&#361;ng nh&#7845;n m&#7841;nh r&#7857;ng &#7903; c&#7889;t l&otilde;i c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, b&agrave; l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&#7909;c s&#432;, y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng s&acirc;u s&#7855;c ng&#432;&#7901;i d&acirc;n c&#7911;a Ch&uacute;a v&agrave; th&#7871; gi&#7899;i Ch&uacute;a &#273;&atilde; t&#7841;o ra. B&agrave; l&atilde;nh &#273;&#7841;o th&ocirc;ng qua s&#7921; h&#7907;p t&aacute;c, m&#7901;i g&#7885;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c tham gia v&agrave;o qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh ra quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; v&agrave; m&#7901;i g&#7885;i s&#7921; t&ograve; m&ograve; v&agrave; kh&aacute;m ph&aacute;.<\/p>\n<p>V&#7899;i kinh nghi&#7879;m l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c h&#417;n t&aacute;m n&#259;m trong v&#259;n ph&ograve;ng gi&aacute;o x&#7913;, Stoller &#273;&atilde; tham gia v&agrave;o c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c h&agrave;nh ch&iacute;nh h&agrave;ng ng&agrave;y v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng kh&oacute; kh&#259;n &#273;&#7871;n v&#7899;i c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7909;c v&#7909; gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t xung &#273;&#7897;t v&agrave; ph&aacute;n quy&#7871;t. C&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7909;c v&#7909; n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&oacute; kh&#259;n, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7847;u t&#432; cho m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t cho c&aacute;ch ch&uacute;ng ta l&agrave; Gi&aacute;o h&#7897;i c&ugrave;ng nhau. B&agrave; c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7909;c v&#7909; trong nhi&#7873;u b&#7889;i c&#7843;nh kh&aacute;c nhau, ph&#7909;c v&#7909; nh&#432; m&#7897;t vicar v&agrave; m&#7909;c s&#432; trong c&aacute;c m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng n&ocirc;ng th&ocirc;n, ngo&#7841;i &ocirc;, th&agrave;nh th&#7883; v&agrave; qu&#7889;c t&#7871;.<\/p>\n<p>M&#7895;i n&#417;i &acirc;n s&#7911;ng n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; cho b&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i h&#7885;c h&#7887;i v&agrave; tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh, &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; b&agrave; tin l&agrave; m&#7897;t gi&aacute; tr&#7883; su&#7889;t &#273;&#7901;i. V&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&acirc;n th&#7875; v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u th&agrave;nh vi&ecirc;n, v&agrave; n&#7871;u ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; y&ecirc;u th&#432;&#417;ng nhau trong s&#7921; &#273;a d&#7841;ng tuy&#7879;t &#273;&#7865;p n&agrave;y, ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&aacute;i tim c&#7911;a Ch&uacute;a.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Melissa L. Stoller \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea7u l\u00e0m gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn T\u00e2y Nam Pennsylvania v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 13 th\u00e1ng 6. B\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng trong th\u1eddi gian chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ebb h\u00f3a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 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